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This system limited my characters so I will have to shorten this. Painful topic because death is reality. However the death of someone who we really love is especially difficult. I really appreciate the vulnerability of the host with sharing while in the early stage of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. After the “2 week time frame” we are expected to get on with life and function as normal. Great insight into diving deep into the emotional aspect especially from the point of view of an adult male. Now here’s where I differ - any homegoing celebration, funeral etc. —> is for the living. My father died 5 months ago. Any celebrations or funeral we had was for us - not him-he is deceased. If he did not leave final directions or funds to proceed forward with what to do with his body, belongings or debts - then the decision fell on the family or next of kin. I could choose to let the county dispose of his body, cremation or simply not do anything at all and walk away from it all (like some family members do at the Casualty Affairs Office). The debts of the deceased is THEIR debt. Not the next of kin’s, not the family. If they have not paid a car note, house note, insurance bill or have mounting hospital bills - the next of kin does not have to pay for it out of their own funds. Yes, if there is an estate the funds should come out of the estate but if there are $0 - then $0 is what they get. I have lost inherited property to the county due to back taxes (third party issue but I’ll stay on target), buried 3 close relatives since November (one with no plans or funds). Bottom line, it’s frustrating, it’s annoying, it’s disappointing but their failure to plan does not become your debt. My dad did not have flowers on his coffin, printed program or food for family but he’ still deceased. My other relative died without plans or funds but had a gorgeous family spray on the coffin, the most beautiful printed program and a lovely repass but were those really needed? Those are bills we choose to incur. All his other stuff (debts, failure to plan) is his shortcoming not yours. If a creditor is calling you for someone else, give the number of the cemetary where they are buried or his cell # - that debt belongs to the estate. The anger stage is appropriate - be as angry as you want -yell, cry, have an all out fight with your loved one - you ARE grieving

Gave me goosebumps! I love it!

Great Topic! I think that emotional maturity is something that is only attained if one seeks such and if they truly care about what the lack there of will do to them or the people they love.

Great informative content! I appreciate your realism and vulnerability to discuss the topic. A lot of people are scared of death or scared to talk about death and fail to have the conversation. Also, growing up families didn’t sit children down as they were growing up to have such conversations. I hope this reaches millions and change families lives for the better.

Good afternoon. I'm giving you my honest opinion. But I thought it was a bit "preachy ". I feel it came off that way because of the use of all the Bible references and your delivery. I'm not saying your message was bad. But I think some people may not want to hear a "lecture" or a "sermon" during their leisure time. Now I know this was the 1st installment of the series (and I look forward to hearing what you have next), but I think you need other people to bounce off of. You said all this started because of private conversations. Key word being "conversations". You need that back & forth dialogue to get a different view/perception of the type. I hope you can find some men to join in with you, because it's an excellent topic. Especially this day & age when masculinity is at a crossroad. Maybe you could have an episode with a Heterosexual male, Gay male, Flamboyant Gay male, and or a Transgender male. And have them discuss what being a "man" is to them. What is the difference between being a man and masculinity? I hope this helps you in some way. I love you and want nothing but the very best for you and your podcast. So keep going and don't let things get you down. Everything will work itself out.

Bruce Smith approaches each topic with a high degree of integrity, honest and intelligence. He breaks the topic down so everyone can relate/understand! Very thought provoking and insightful! Keep them coming and keep up the great work!

“What is a Man?” I’m just saying, WHY ??? isn’t this being taught to be bigger audiences? This needs to be in every church sitting, theater, men’s small groups, etc. This series is so good! Good to the last drop! I’m trying to understand why it’s not the hot topic everywhere. Help me out!

Hey Bruce , man oh man what vital information given out to man.Very informative wether you’re that man who’s hitting all the bases or you’re that man who’s coming up short ? This info given out causes one to reevaluate his life , his responsibilities and his relationship with GOD first and most importantly. Great information , awesome content and respectfully served up.Not being offensive at all as a listener but enlightened by someone who cares for the wellbeing of mankind.Very helpful to all who listens with a non judgmental spirit.This message causes you to think about changing things/ ways in one’s life. Awesome work !!

I listened to both podcast “What is a Man?” Part 1 & 2. I commend you on the professionalism of it. You are theology sound and the subject matter does provoke thought.

This was a great episode. Very informative!!! Lots of good nuggets every man should here. Keep up the great work. Regina

A level on a Mental EvolutioN. Once you realize there are higher levels… continue to grow…. Mentally… grow your prospective… increase your patients… keep learning… always teach……. Looking forward to the series brother. Peace

Good afternoon. Just wanted to let you know I listened to the podcast. It was very well presented. Marcus is very knowledgeable and very strategic in how he presented the information. I know I don’t have 30 years of history being connected with you as a friend, as well as someone that went to college with you, I want you to know this episode is needed, Essential even. However, in respect to buy term and invest the difference, as an insurance agent myself, this one of the business model companies that I work with. In fairness, there are benefits to this model. I believe the reason why the industry is against the concept of buy term and invest the difference is because it benefits is dependent on the consumer’s discipline, the market and the relationship between agent & customer. Yes, a third of a commission had written a whole life policy on a client and then set them up with the cash value. I would love to sit down and talk with anyone in this area because I’m very passionate about it especially when I see like you said, union national “the brown envelope person ” coming around and collecting a payment from my grandmother on a policy that she never got a chance to even use. Again I thank you for bringing awareness, especially among our people because for so long, they looked at insurance as is burial and not generational wealth creation, or estate conservation. If there’s anything else I can elaborate on regarding my statements please don’t hesitate to ask. I appreciate you allowing me to comment. Keep doing what you’re doing and I hope to connect with you in the near future. Blessings.

The podcast regarding life insurance was very informative and delivered very well. For those who wondered if life insurance wasn’t important this episode expressed the exact opposite. The host, Mr.Smith, had a very knowledgeable individual on the topic and it was a non bias discussion which made it very enjoyable to listen to. Well done.

Another great episode!!! This episode like the others had great nuggets as you listen. I love your vulnerability in this episode to admit where you miss the mark. I love the fact that you said this day I will start to be and do better. Also, while men have a lot on their plates women do also. Women carry the emotional baggage of work, children and the home and that’s a lot of weight. I know men carry a lot but wanted all to know don’t exclude women. Keep up the great work and keep the podcasts coming

Great episode once again sir. I believe that actions speak louder than words. With that being said showing gratitude is better than words. When someone does something for you say Thank you that goes a long way too. This needs to be taught at an early age to raise kind individuals. Keep on with the positivity.

That episode had a lot of nuggets in it. We deal with disappointment daily. I would add is to talk to the person who disappointed you if they are mature enough for the conversation. I feel if that person doesn’t know they may continue to disappoint. Keep on doing what you do. The podcasts will achieve what you set out for them to do.

It was a great informative listen. This hit home for me. I have a daughter in college and 10th grader in Highschool. I’m excited to sit with my son and see which direction he wants to go in. Keep the podcasts coming we appreciate you.

I finally had a chance to sit and listen to a full podcast and I tell you that one about is college worth it was really really good! As a proponent of education there was one part that you mentioned that stuck out with me and I always tell my son this and other people that I meet... When you're trying to figure out what it is you want to do in life as far as an occupation etc.... if it is something that you will do even if you did not get paid for it then that is what you're calling is ...that is what you're supposed to be doing. A lot of times people get stuck in jobs and like you say they're hating to go to work and their attitude is reflected in their work ethic... This is the passion that I feel about nursing. You pointed out a lot of good things concerning education particularly they make us take all these courses which we will never again us in our life. "I guess that's all about them making the well-rounded student." Also I like the fact that when you present your topic you also present and you back everything up with facts. it's just not merely your opinion on some things but you also have facts to correlate what you state. It's almost like I can see your bibliography page LOL. Bravo Sir

I like the episode about managing time. I am Type A and spend most of the day organizing my time in the various compartments of my senior brain. I was thinking this doesn’t apply to me until the part about - “time really flew by” Ouch—- that got me. I’ll give that episode a 5.

I guess it’s pretty natural to use the word interchangeably with those we associate with. I grew up as a military brat so moving every year, and having friends wasn’t really expected. I recently emailed my 5th-grade bestie after finding her on the internet as a Professor of Veterinary Medicine. It was really good to share with her and let her know that I have often thought about her over the past 40+ years. I liked this episode the best because the volume was lower so I could hear with my senior ears. I give this episode a 4 - only because I couldn’t really relate since I’ve never been a friend person.

I liked the analogies, examples, and the way you described your point. Keep up the good work 🙏

Great episode. Listened to it with my teenage son. It gave me a great opportunity to break things down to him. Shout out for using those lyrics from MJG. I’ve been referring to those as an assessment tool since that song came out in the 90’s. Great work!!!

The question I would pose as it relates to friends is are spouses considered friends? I ask this because what if you guys have different interests. Examples movies, tv shows, hobbies etc. shouldn’t alignment of interests be the same if we are considered friends. The podcast was a great listen great examples from the Bible. Keep up the great work

Loved this one man it reminds me of one of my grandmothers favorite sayings, which echoes to your question of why do we have a problem with the truth? My grandmother would often respond to someone saying, Dear you shouldn’t have said this or that to that person that was wrong or out of place. She would respond by saying “Well if the truth kills em let ‘em die”. We live in a world today where the truth is hidden from children, some with so called mental disorders and folks with thin skin. Well if my grandmother was in charge we would have a significant decrease in population. Good topic Press On My Brother

The podcast was informative and great advice. Keep being inspired to do what you do.

Honest commentary. The questions are very confrontational. The vibe of this episode is an encouraging plea for us to embrace the whole truth despite our feelings about it. The background music was a little loud. Overall, great episode.

Im definitely looking forward to seeing this project grow to its fullest potential. I just finished the introduction and i can honestly say that i enjoyed it. I will certainly be tuning in. Great job my friend 👏 👍

The show is real and relevant. The show not only have parent perspective but hopefully for kids listening enlighten them to what parents endures in parenting. Continue to keep it real from a man’s perspective and be vulnerable to share. Great podcast and I look forward to many more.

Great introduction Musical selections on point Host has great voice and projection